This Week’s Focus

Crash Course: Libra, Womb Energy, and Sexual Relations
Issue 40 Volume 8 06 October 2025

There is more respect in the East for women and for their role in society. Here in the West, the woman is not fully appreciated. Her contribution is underrated and misunderstood. In fact, this is one of the reasons she seeks fulfilment and recognition in other spheres, because Western society has become oblivious of her unique and vital role. Abused by neglect and disregard, she seeks other avenues where she may be appreciated, recognised and rewarded. — Satguru Sivaya Subramuniyaswami (1927 — 2001), Living with Siva (2001)

Dear wonderful neighbour and fellow traveller;

What follows is a crash course on a profound topic that can help you transform your life. This topic is complex, but the message is simple: everything is energy and the wise ones know how to use energy for the good of all… we can too. 😉

Astrophysicists, religious pundits, and yogis agree that in the beginning, there was an incomprehensible ‘explosion’ of energy which ultimately created the Cosmos and everything in it. Science calls this the ‘Big Bang’, religion speaks of the ‘word of God’, and yoga refers to the ‘primordial AUM’. In essence, who we think we are, including our body, mind, and spirit, is energy and as the first law of thermodynamics states, energy cannot be created or destroyed, only transformed from one form to another.

The Astrology of Joy newsletter I offer each week is unapologetically geared towards women in large part because most of you reading this are female. Nevertheless, what is discussed is applicable to both men and women, even this month’s chat about wombs and womb energy. A man who understands and respects the feminine energy in all its forms is better able to support the pure expression of the feminine and not a ‘masculinised’ version which has run rough shod over the feminine quality for decades — ironically, in large part by women. The feminine is an absolutely vital aspect of Life and when it is regularly undercut by a ‘poverty of consciousness’, the beauty, compassion, and joy of life struggles to express itself in its purity.

As we noted last week, a woman’s womb is a powerful storehouse of spiritual energy. Though its primary purpose is to conceive and nurture life, the energy in reserve required to support this purpose profoundly influences the nature of a woman, e.g., to be caring, compassionate, and nurturing — qualities required to be a mother, a role a woman inherently imbibes, even if only in principle. This same energy easily allows a woman to transcend the normal physical experience and perceive other dimensions of reality and more readily than a man (generally speaking).

Why would she not? The simple answer is because of a poverty of consciousness that prevents her from realising and experiencing the innate power of her womb energy. In a masculinised world that puts so much emphasis on the sexual experience, indiscriminate sex is arguably the greatest threat to her experiencing the majesty and miracle of her own being. This is not a moral issue; it’s an energetic one.

Most women do not understand the greatness of the feminine quality that manifests within them (nor men, for that matter, but that’s for another issue). In India not long ago, Sadhguru made it a point to admonish women for allowing their bodies to become objectified by men. He was not addressing any woman in particular, but women as a whole. There are many layers to this, of course, but the point is that spiritual beings like Sadhguru experience the importance of the feminine not only in the world but in ourselves. Between any two objects in this world, including between us humans, there is an energetic exchange. The more intimate and physical that exchange, the greater the energetic bond created. This is not labelling anything as right or wrong; rather, it is a reminder that everything we do and everything we think has consequences. Remember? Energy is neither created nor destroyed, only transformed. Just like in law, ignorance is not an excuse. The consequences of energy exchange will be experienced.

One of the great pitfalls of liberal ideology in recent times, is the belief that self-discipline has little or no value in a person’s life, that “if it feels good, it must be right”. Spiritual beings from all traditions have for centuries cautioned us against such beliefs, and this is especially true for promiscuity. Sadhguru warns both men and women of the energetic price paid for promiscuity that can affect our lives in unimaginable ways. Likewise, many gurus such as the well-respected yogi Sivaya Subramuniyaswami and founder of Hinduism Today magazine speak of a cord or tube of energy created between two people who have intercourse that lasts for up to twelve years. Sadhguru elaborates and tells us this “body memory” creates insecurity and is one of the primary agents for discord.

This energy tube is actually an ingenious protective mechanism nature has created in the chance that a child is born from the coming together of a man and woman. This tube influences the emotional minds of both at a profound level and creates a bond between them. This is why it is harder to separate from a sexual partner than a partner where sex had not occurred. Again, do not think of this in terms of morals or you will miss the point. Morals are human inspired; energy interaction is not. There is no judgement being handed down; rather, there are simply natural laws that have consequences. Let go of a brick over your bare toe, and gravity will remind you natural laws have consequences. 🤭

Not surprisingly, modern science is coming to the same conclusions. Cardiologist Dr. Paul Pearsall in his bestselling book The Heart’s Code writes:

From a cardio-energetic point of view, it may not be possible to engage in “casual” sex. Every mechanistic act of genital juxtaposition and mutual pelvic gymnastics may also be a vital-fluid, connective-energy exchange. What we mechanistically refer to as a climax is really a powerful end to the build-up to an energetic bond. Whenever we “make love,” and whether or not we combine cells to make a new life, we are creating new cellular memories within and between two life systems. We are engaging in an energetic event that, because of the principle of nonlocality and the fact that elements once in contact are forever connected, becomes a permanent cellular memory of and for each lover. If our intent is to avoid energetic commitment, no sex is “safe” sex.

Self-realised spiritual master Gurumay Chidvilasananda warned us many years ago in a public programme that we take on the karma of those with whom we are intimate. Don Juan, Carlos Castaneda’s shaman guru, said that our past sexual experiences are a major obstacle on the spiritual path and advised his students to ‘recapitulate’ all past experiences as a means of not only taking back your energy from your sexual partners, but returning the energy you took from them.

Note: A simple form of recapitulation is to hold the memory of an encounter with someone from the past, breathe in with the intention of “taking back your energy” and breathe out with the intention of giving back to them what you took. Do this with focused intent and you will find it is an amazing process. This need not be done for just sexual partners, but for any past interaction with another.

Modern society through marketing spaces, the entertainment industry, and powerful organisations with agendas have intentionally promoted the idea of sex without consequences for at least 100 years. As spiritual beings, however, we understand that nothing is free. There are no morals to this story. This is not about being prudish or sentencing everyone to celibacy. It is simply asking you to pause, be conscious, and be discriminating in your actions. Ask yourself if what you are about to do is going to take you where you want to go. If so, then great! If not, why go on?

Without a doubt, every woman has available to her by virtue of being born a woman a powerful ally within her that can help her open the door to both spiritual dimensions and the halls of worldly success. Perhaps there was a time when women felt powerless because of their position in society, but in modern times, women are empowered to live their lives according to their own ideas. The more women come into this realisation, the better the feminine will express itself as it should. Men also have a responsibility and must pull their weight. Together, both men and women can make the world a better place, as we should.

Warm thoughts and many blessings,

David 🙏🏻 🤗
astrologyofjoy.com

Bibliography:

– Living with Shiva, by Sivaya Subramuniyaswami

– The Sorcerer’s Crossing: A Woman’s Journey, by Taisha Abelar

– Various YouTube videos of Sadhguru speaking on the subject like this one here

– The Heart’s Code, by Paul Pearsall

– Integral Yoga Blog, a very nice discussion with references

– The Art of Dreaming, by Carlos Castaneda

Astrology Monday:
Just the facts, please!
An American icon from 60s television, hard-boiled detective Joe Friday always insists on “just the facts”.

This week’s no-nonsense forecast:

Worldly fulfilment
Mars/Mercury in Scorpio
Scorpio is Mars’s second home. Scorpio is more mystical and psychological than worldly. Still, Scorpio is a great guide to any endeavour. The sting of the Scorpio scorpion tells us when we are off track.

With Mercury in Scorpio today through 28 October, an enemy to Mars, we can feel that our efforts do not amount to much. Be watchful of becoming overwhelmed with options. Pick a few and throw yourself into those. Continue the ones that work.

Saturn retrograde in Pisces
This combination causes fear and concern because our imagination can get away from us. However, Saturn’s retrograde status helps us recognise previous fear-inspired choices so we can create a better plan to resolve current issues. If struggling, rethink your game plan.

Spiritual fulfilment
Mars/Mercury in Scorpio
Scorpio is where the will of Mars makes great gains in shining a light into the dark corners of the unconscious. This is why Scorpio is also the sign of mysticism and mystical experience. With Mercury, don’t rationalise away mystical experience. Keep things simple.

Ongoing

Solar Eclipse (effects through October)
Material connection and abundance get a boost from learning where you are not embracing your natural talents and abilities. Being false stems from the fear of losing control. Step back, look at your life objectively, then have courage to be who you always knew you were. This eclipse is extremely beneficial if you allow it to reveal where you deceive yourself.

Uranus in Gemini!
Uranus is in Gemini thru 8 November, giving us a preview of the next seven years beginning 26 April, 2026. Uranus is your authentic nature yearning to be freed. If you are struggling, it simply means you are not honouring your authenticity. You are living a lie and Uranus wants to put an end to your falsehoods and pretence. Let it show you the way.

Jupiter in Cancer
Jupiter in Cancer is an opportunity to find fulfilment through service, creativity, and abundance. Keep your Jupiter pointed high. Jupiter can become distracted and very ordinary through material goals. Nothing wrong with these as long as they don’t take the lead.

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